Hair


Keep a watchful eye for spiritual materialism.
Don’t look for a goal,
but practice meditation nevertheless.

Don’t try to push your ideas,
don’t dictate,
and don’t edit the dharma,
the truth and the teachings.

The dharma is yours,
so you could relate to the dharma very simply.

Let dharma come to you.

If there is a conflict between you and dharma,
if I may say so,
it is your conflict.

Dharma has no conflict.

~ Excerpted from: Milarepa: Lessons from the Life and Songs of Tibet’s Great Yogi,
by Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche, pages 115–116

My hair is getting so long!

My hair brought to mind for John and me “Rapunzel,” the fairy tale by the Brothers Grimm. I had to look it up to remind myself of the details, so you might enjoy at least a refresher of the end.

For two years the poor blind prince wandered the world, looking for Rapunzel. From morning to night he called for her, but it was no use. At last, he reached a desert. One day, he heard a beautiful voice singing. “Oh!” he thought. “I know that voice!” It was his dear Rapunzel! He went closer and closer to the voice he knew so well.

“My prince!” called Rapunzel when she saw him. The two of them hugged tight. Two tears of joy fell into the eyes of the prince. All at once, he could see again!

The opening quotation from Milarepa sits at a very hollow home in my heart, especially the phrase: “Don’t try to push your ideas, don’t dictate…”

And that last line: “Dharma has no conflict.”

I feel the subtle grasping to have our country and my world be free of conflict.

That longing for freedom from conflict is amplified as we winter here in Florida where political signs continue to swing in the tropical breezes and the doors to restaurants and bars are wide open even as Covid cases continue to rise.

Of course, these conditions are impermanent.

This, too, shall pass.

For those who are not inclined to click on the link to read the entire story of Rapunzel’s long hair, here is the end:

And what happened next, well, I’m sure you can guess! The prince and Rapunzel went back to the kingdom where the prince lived. They were married as soon as they could. The prince became king of the land and Rapunzel became queen. The two of them lived happily ever after.

Today, I will let the dharma come to me.

Hair grows.

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