A Skillful Goodbye

Japanese Zen masters sometimes know when they are going to die.

Once master Hofaku called his monks together and said: “This last week my energy has been draining – no cause for worry. It is just that death is near.”

A monk asked: “You are about to die! What does […]

Writing and Sharing

Recently, I have been blessed to share some of my writing in a variety of settings, including in my writers’ group, at an open mic event, and within an assisted living facility. I am amazed at what happens inside you as a writer through your writing (and sharing) process.

For one thing, sharing your […]

Real Friends

On a walk through a nature preserve with a friend, we came upon a most unusual sighting. Not at all sure what we were seeing—one was on it back, covered by tiny ants—at first we thought perhaps both of these Giant Leopard Moths were dead. A small stick was lying nearby so I […]

The Tool is Neutral

It is totally amazing what technology can do. Someone can snag bank account information when they walk beside you on the street. And as cloud computing gains popularity the risk to gigantic quantities of sensitive data is magnified. Information now travels across national borders in the blink of an eye. At the same […]

Spiritual Healing

“Saul is quite the healer,” Sheilana quietly announced following the meditation. Sheilana Massey has been recognized as gifted since her early life within a Quaker farm family. For decades, Dr. Massey has hosted a weekly Meditation for Peace in her home on Pine Island in Southwest Florida. She had heard of Dr. Saul […]

A Promise Worth Keeping

Days have flown by, filled with family fun and shared experiences. For Christmas, hand-made gifts were shared, bringing delight beyond belief. The gifts, included an aromatic rice bag for the microwave (the scent was created using herbal teas); a sugar scrub to make hands and feet soft as a baby’s butt, and a […]

Be Present

It is said that a picture is worth a thousand words: certainly true about this revised holiday to-do list. Your priorities are set straight with such simple shifts of awareness. The first one (Be Present) reminds me of our relationship with our grandchildren. They do not expect presents from us. EVER. They see […]

Special Memories

You can close your eyes to reality, but not to memories. ~ Stanislaw Jerzy Lec Cleaning out my cupboard where I keep scarves and jewelry was the way I spent a few hours this afternoon. I slowly turned a pair of clip-on earrings and a broach that belonged to my mom over and […]

Finding Joy in the Journey

“It is not joy that makes us grateful; it is gratitude that makes us joyful.”

I heard this pithy quotation attributed to Brené Brown, but it actually came from Gratefulfness, The Heart of Prayer by Brother David Steindl-Rast, and it is part of a larger commentary:

Ordinary happiness depends on happenstance. Joy is […]

It’s OK

Life literally hangs by a breath. Breathe in. After exhaling, consider the possibility that you might not be able to inhale again. When breath no longer enters your body, then your life span has ended, and you will die. Say to yourself, “This life is fragile and completely dependent on my breath.” From […]